Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Conversation Stoppers and Other Basic Concepts

Gathered in our father's family room, the conversation turned to the state of our State. A common occurrence among those who have lived in Michigan their whole lives; and for those who are able to remember a more stable and prosperous time; the days before the auto industry began to choke and die, reaping the accumulated economic karma resulting from decades spent pushing inferior products. We spoke of neighborhoods that had once been healthy and vibrant, that now sit abandoned. Whole cities, like Flint MI, that have crumbled into extreme poverty, their communities having been abandoned by General Motors Corp.

Inevitably, the discussion shifted to crime. Understandably so, because there is so much of it these days. Due, certainly in no small part to the fact that Michigan currently has the highest rate of unemployment in the continental United States, and this translates into a huge portion of our local population having to struggle just to meet their basic needs. Given our situation, is there any surprise that crime is a topic of regular discussion? Things seem only to get worse as time wears on, and we are running out of viable economic options to turn the tide.

As everyone sat there sharing their theories on why things are the way that they are, and how it is that we, as a state, a nation, as a people have arrived at the point we find ourselves today, I decided to add my two cents. "I don't believe," I said, "that anything is a problem in our world, that someone, somewhere, does not want to be a problem in order to profit from it." Blank stares, and the conversation moved on as if I had not spoken. After some time, I saw an opportunity to interject my opinion once more, this time, in reference to crime. "You want to know how to get rid of most of the crime in our society?" I asked. "Universal health care, and free education." The room fell silent for what felt like minutes, until my brother glibly replied 'Man, that's way too deep for this discussion' and went on to change the subject.

I did not take issue then, because that would have been inappropriate for me to press my opinion on the group beyond my initial statement, however, I will take issue with it here, (lucky for you all, right?). So, for what it's worth... universal health care and free education?.... these subjects are not deep. Not even remotely. As I see it, these are basic human rights that we should be extending to one another, collectively. We need to be talking about this, and we need to do so now, as in yesterday! The reality that we all need to confront, as we move into 2008, is the reality of society as it exists in the now, the current state of affairs if you will. We all must open our hearts and minds, and understand clearly that any society in which health care is not free, in which education is not free; this is a society that either A.) does not give two craps about it's citizens, or B.) whose citizens are too lazy and/or afraid to demand they be treated with respect and human decency. So which is it? A or B?

About time we started seriously discussing option C.) if you ask me.

16 comments:

CapCity said...

Dave - I actually had to laugh when I got to your brother's statement: Tha's way too deep for this discussion...it was laughter of being WAYYY too familiar with sitting in your place surrounded by folx I was "raised with" who don't "get me". What's also "funny" to me is the fact that folx will begin these meaningful discussions & have no clue how "deep" they'll get. The topic on crime in this country in & of itself IS a deep topic. Maybe sports would've been "better" light "fare" ;-).

Happy New Year, Dear Dave J & Family!

cooper said...

The answers are difficult and mean much change.
People hate change.

Free or low cost higer ed, and decent standard education alone would pull up a whole segment of society.

For an educated society not to foresee the jobs loss technology would cause and not to address them prior to it happening is unforgivable, but to ignore the absolutely shitty education given a large percentage of this country is just ridiculous, as is bowing down to the Insurance Lobby.

It will take something devastating, more loss of insurance, jobs and continued downward mobility of the middle class before something happens if we don't stop it now - wake up. The other result is eventually a revolution - by the children of our children - and all because of the lack of foresight and motivation of their forebears.

Dave J. said...

Cap,
Good to know someone else out there knows how this feels! I love my brother, but our differences go way beyond anything nature/nurture could ever explain. How that is, I don't really understand. You're right, it IS deep, and I shouldn't make it out to be any less then that, but in my mind, I have spent so much time dwelling on similar subjects that it's difficult for me to remember that there are many people who don't. You know, all I want is to understand the world we live in, and move forward from that and help to make life better for us all, great and small. I guess there comes a time when you can hear that tickety-tock and you either get to business, or you resign to spend the rest of your time ignorant.

/big hugs :D

Happy new year Cap, hopefully 2008 will bring us some much needed growth.

Dave J. said...

Coop,
Ah, see, that's just not cool. Change is good! Why are people so opposed to it? Change can equal growth and betterment. Good point. I sit here talking about us focusing on a free higher education, when we have yet to even get it right at the elementary, fundamental level. Social mobility, such a novel concept. But it's easy to point fingers, and place blame too. We could just as easily attribute our children's poor education to the parents, many of which don't give a damn about whether or not the child has done their homework, or had breakfast, or wears a coat to class, or even if they have a pencil to write with. Complexity of issues mingling here.

I hope that we are able to stage this revolution you speak of from within, peacefully! Of course, to even so much as mention the word "revolution" marginalizes the speaker. Good sheep do not stray from the flock, even as it is led over the edge of a cliff. Stay strong sister, do not change for anyone or anything! 2008 will bring change; one way or another.

:)

franscud said...

I've tried to have these discussions so many times and just like you I can't even get past the broadest concepts without people throwing up brick walls. Education is a huge issue, and you're right that there are people who benefit greatly from it never being resolved. As I meander through my day, I overhear so many conversations that depress me because they're so focused on things that don't matter. How do we get people to stop worrying about all the distractions and start dealing with our real issues? I don't know. I hope it doesn't take a depression to spark a revolution, because so many Americans are ill-informed right now and it could lead to something very repressive. Just look at what was put in place in the wake of 9/11.

Marcus said...

I have spent a lot of time trying to figure out just what this problem is all about. I have sat through dozens - if not hundreds - of situations like the one you describe. In the end, the lesson I have been forced to take - is that we can only talk about these things with like-minded people.

Yet the hard part about that, is we all want to be accepted as who we are by our family. It's a tough one, and an issue I constantly struggle with even now.

Sometimes it seems there is always this conflict, where if you want to simply be yourself it means you are in opposition with others around you. The other option being that we have to give the illusion that we are conforming as such.

There has to be a third, fourth or fifth option I am sure...

Unsane said...

I think that those in the US have largely bought into the idea that market forces and market forces alone have the quality of being god. To suggest an alternative to them is to be downright satanic.