There is a sickness on the loose, and it is spreading across the whole of Westernized society. Unlike other pathogens, this one infects virtually everyone, and once you’ve got it, you can go your entire life without knowing you had it. I am speaking of Affluenza "the disease of consumerism." Since mid-twentieth century, Affluenza has spread like wildfire throughout the Western world, leaving nothing in its wake but empty, lonely, unhappy people. In the United States, and elsewhere; there is this belief held by many (and validated through their actions) that life is just one big shopping spree. Fueled by thoughts of “I want,” “I need,” and “enough is never enough,” people are filling their lives at an alarming rate with “things” and then claiming later that their existence feels empty. It’s part of living in a consumerist culture. Prompted to “buy now - pay later” we are fast becoming a materialistic, greedy, and self-absorbed culture.
To put this into perspective; in 1958 only 4% of American households had dishwashers. That percentage has since increased to 50%. Similarly, in 1958 only 1% of the population had a television set, and that has risen to an astounding 97%. We fly 25 times more often than we used to just 30 years ago, and there are some of us who fly just to shop! Shopping malls have become the center of the community, and there are currently more malls in the U.S. than high schools. Studies have revealed that 70% of the American populous visits a shopping center at least once a week, and spends a weekly average of 6 hours shopping. This is due in part to the psychosis that we need more to feel good about ourselves.
Our entire orientation is based on comparison to others. Some theorize that because of this, we suffer feelings of inadequacy if our neighbor has the newest latest material good, and we don’t. Advertisers have keyed into this, and they prey on our misgivings of self-worth. We are bombarded with ads and commercials all designed to cause us to feel that we are not lovable without “stuff.” Especially prevalent among the youth (who on average have been witness to over 1 million commercials by the age of 20!), this is exemplified by adolescents who seek to boost their self-esteem through clothes, and ultimately are left without a sense of identity to prepare them for life as an adult, and in the end, they often perpetuate this shallow behavior for decades.
We are in constant competition with each other to have the best of the best, even when we can’t afford it. So we increase our consumption by working more and saving less, until we experience what is known as “possession overload.” Life becomes taken up, by taking care of “things” instead of people. The more we have, the more we must keep track of. Relationships suffer as we slowly become owned by our “stuff.” People become disposable. If you don’t give me pleasure, I’ll just get rid of you for someone newer, better. But those who fall victim to this treatment are not limited to people we know, or who are in our immediate circles. Volunteerism is on a huge decline, because people just don’t have the time anymore; it’s all spent working to pay off their ridiculously large debts.
It is important to point out that prior to the twentieth century; the word “consumption” had a very negative connotation. It was used to describe the act of exhausting something completely, burning out, or an ending. Yet this has been twisted in the modern age to suit the needs of a free market economy that wants you to believe that “consuming” every last dime in your pocket, in the pursuit of artificial happiness, is the meaning of life. However money and “things” will never bring us lasting happiness. They never have, and they never will. We need to change our ways, and we need to do so now. The United States for example, represents only 4.55% of the world’s overall population, and we consume 25% of the Earth’s resources, and if we continue down this path, there will be nothing left to consume.





14 comments:
And there is an emptiness in us because of it. It's like a disease really.
It is amazing how words that were once taboo are now not only accepted but embraced proudly. Consumerism, pre-emptive war, imperialism, even labeling oneself a capitalist. I'm old enough to have personally witnessed the change. I've also completely rejected the lifestyle, but am suffering the fate of marginalization because of it. Oh well, the pendulum will swing back some time.
Do you think it could be linked to something else I've noticed? What I see in the schools is that children are no longer taught that it is a slight on their dignity to be a mummy's boy or a mummy's girl. Whereas when/re I grew up teachers were firey monsters and dragons for the most part -- a kind of military model of organisation -- these days all female teachers, at least, are surrogate mummies, to whom you can go crying when the slightest thing goes wrong.
So in a sense what I'm getting at is that the average Westerner is never actually weaned from the breast. He or she always feels they need more nurturing, more reassurance, and so on. This passive attitude, which is perpetuated in the schools becomes the attitude of passive consumerism. The mature (in body but not in mind) adult turns to its "mummy' in the form of the department store or boutique or gadget shop. Thus do they seek to continue to find emotional nurturing through passive experience, way into their adulthood.
What's up, Dave? I wonder if anyone has a solution to this consumer narcissism and perpetual "esteem-means-more-possessions" battle that so many people in our land face--and lose--daily?
No argument here - it's the root cause and it's corollary - greed.
Cooper,
Yes! Exactly. So very empty. You can see it in peoples eyes when you try to engage them with questions about their lives, their likes and dislikes. Most have designed their identity so completely around "junk" that to speak of belief based "values" just doesn't equate. Can't put a price tag on it.
Fran,
I agree. It's like a collective dumbing down of the potency of language. Either that or we want to reduce our dissonance and the only way to do that is to passively condone these things that were once appalling to us. I wonder if it's not so much that we consciously want to alter our values but that, as things grow worse, we feel a subconscious need to.
Well, not in your case of course. Your's is more of a deliberate choice. But for so many, they don't even begin to understand why they go along with... everything. Language changes and we/they don't even realize the change has occurred.
Being marginalized is actually preferable in my opinion, considering the alternatives. Do you think the tables will turn within our lifetimes? Sometimes I wonder how much time we have left.
Jennifer,
I've heard similar stories from teachers that I know. The complaint they all share is that many of their students seem almost as if they have no parents at all. A few have even gone so far as to slip and refer to their teacher as "mom." Their parents often work 2+ jobs (or none), never show up to student conferences, and are generally neglectful.
In defense of the teachers, it's difficult to turn a cold eye onto these kids, because the suspicion is that they get no love home. The teachers then fall into the trap of passively condoning the clinging neediness of the children, hoping that maybe if they are shown some attention, or offered some type of love SOMEWHERE, it just might keep them out of jail down the road.
Abandoned by their parents, abandoned by the system, kids seek validation through their peers, but none of them are developed enough to know how to give it beyond superficial judgments.
I agree with you completely. All this "stuff" is like a giant pacifier that we readily suck.